A friend excitedly suggested signing me up for a service, and I agreed. I wasn’t sure which site I should use, eHarmony, plentyoffish, Christian Mingle, match.com? She had heard that eHarmony was started by a Christian psychologist. Turns out there was a free version; I registered. We went through a million questions and even that was just behind the scenes. It took me several more weeks to fill out my actual profile (the part that matches see) and it’s still only, as eHarmony reminds me, 82% complete. It’s not that the questions are hard or that it’s super lengthy, but I don’t have anything substantial to add, so I don’t.